Jeff agreed to give me a refund and take the car back. He looked at the lug nuts and justified them saying in effect that since they were thicker than the stock lug nuts it didn't matter that they over reached the ends of the studs. Yep, you read that right.
I was getting my money back so I thought better than to argue the matter with him but let me get this straight. Stock studs, stock rims - steel, thin wall - stock lug nuts reaching to the ends of the studs. Then after market rims - thicker walled - stock studs - and thicker lug nuts. So in effect less stud to hold onto even with stock lug nuts. And if an aftermarket rim requires a longer lug nut there is a reason for that like, oh I don't know, a wider tire creating greater forces for the studs and lug nuts to deal with. No mention from Jeff about any justification of failing to stake the axle nuts. I think it slipped his mind - again.
Well there you have it. Instead of an apology he said I was fond of drama. But he did return my money. Your mileage may vary. I get the feeling I was the exception to the rule.
Incidental costs ran about an additional $600 in this adventure that can't be recooped. Most expensive set of new wiper blades I've bought in a long time.
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